Jacobs Family Stories by Cindy Jacobs Copyright © 2009 ImGlobalNow.com All rights reserved: 2021

Friday, November 26, 2021

Bob Told To Keep Eye On Me by Dorothy? after Judgment of God KY?

1996 - 3/1997

Well I wrote about this KY attack Spiritual attack, that I called my Daddy for...will link that. My guess is that Dorothy after being sent to me on this..we were just temps contract in KY...she told him to keep an eye on me. I had or purchased after I can't remember but 2 book.. one by Kenneth Hagen about the Holy Spirit the other "The power of praise" by Merlin Carothers. I started the book by Hagen first...didn't read much of it at all refused to read any more put it up. So I started the one by Carothers. I want to say we were more towards our end of time here in KY...so even that house fire it is possible was 1997 early. I loved the book, and at the time wondered why it was not mentioned or used within church services but it wasn't.

I was wowed by the book...in what I remember though it was like a test..a bible study group or prayer group gathered to do...so never ever done in church. Testing really as recall that is a lot of years ago...things he had experienced in his life doing and basically wanting to see how it worked for needs with a prayer group as recall.. not done church service as recall. They logged and kept track of answer to prayer...each person did...and reported believe they did.

They as I recall told to write down their request...paper person need etc things as that... bring front.. well alter is front folks he had a basket or something for all them to be placed in. Then they worshiped the Lord...that was their time was worship and praise the Lord... it was like wow seeing things done. Living in the life..and boy I should be doing with this so frustrating battles on this puter and am not.. but I do talk head and worship as do. Thanking Father, for that bad thing happening it was...rather than what I been doing It to me now I see it different and how it could be used very powerful hand in hand with the other. Should there be time in service for a sermon? Well I think reading the words of God fitting for that one as Yeshua did do.

Well Bob had to read what I was reading I guess think because told keep eye on is my guess. That man would grit his teeth and thank the Lord trying to do this book...so pissed he would get at some things... the funniest one to me we were already back in AZ left KY.. went fishing with his mom too took her.. and his line would get stuck constant battle to even fish.. So it was constant gritting teeth saying this...rather than swear. So what did God do???? That man caught the biggest Bass he has ever caught. Well of course it didn't last long even with God giving him something better than he ever got fishing. But he did try try try book. Me well I laugh inside. God is funny...and that man had to do this constant...I forget how many times.

Yet this the same man when I asked if he prayed for me in 2012 or so... said he never prayed... woeeeeeeeeeee. but thanked God he did. Thanksgiving mentioned...but also asking within scripture.. well asking is the written.. put words of God to them requests put all in basket maybe upon entering into church do...people know a head of time.. them be right up front where War done too.. then move to praise them sitting at the alter..where God said them were in Rev. Them are not there folks. Prayers front center alter.. War done there..prayer tongues 2 men try..Yeshua send by 2... and worship. We have absolutely no idea that that would bring or what would happen how to continue service.

I did write the first part editing the war Daddy did for me here KY...this next I received... but prior to leaving as were kicked out not done with contract I think..told a month a head or so it was happening... and woeeeee 100 yr flood KY..we left it.

Josh The Fisherman

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We used to go camping when the boys were very young. Well asked his Dad while typing this, but he c

Well he had his own little rod and real as all children, Just cast and real so fast nothing could catch it. Well after so much of that as Betty a lot of times went with us, we made him fish with her haha now she was a bobber person, so he learned both very young age. And we also living walking distance to the park with lake...would walk up with them to feed the ducks and to fish off docks...so they had lots of it.

Anyway the time we so were just laughing about just now talking about. Bob was putting the boat in the water, well the boys always had to go...well that Josh had to have his pole. So he was doing his normal throw and real really fast thing... and he caught a like Bob thinks 3 lb bass... it scared him!! So he gave it to his Dad. So Josh provided dinner as it was what they call a keeper!! What a hoot he was with his fishing.. and that boy did that even when could ride bikes, him and Shawn, Monica's son, they were I think the ones usually would go but heck he would go with anyone.

Now the bobber fishing didn't have that reaction with as they were smaller. Such a card he was. Well this is the type bobber always used by his grandmother, she loved blue gill to eat. We would always cook fresh fish.

OUR WELCOME TO KENTUCKY

Well since I already on Daddy and I posted regarding things in Kentucky from the starts of what we dealt with as a couple...children really raised already...we left in AZ and came to KY first contract job my husband did. They wanted him to start maybe 10-2-1995 I think we left AZ about 09-22-1995 as we needed to find a place to rent get in and we did this done by 9-27 really as want to say when they found out he was here wanted him immediately so the man started 9-28-1995 a couple days earlier than contract.

Now Bob was a boss man in AZ...and Ysidro (Y) worked for Bob there a long time but left then to become a contractor ... His first contract was in Georgia..lived with others on a lake as I recall there a 6 mo. contract...then went to Kentucky. We Y his gal Oceria (she one of the best persons I ever met) and us were friends did travel places together.. will save that stuff for other area.

Y did live in a place in town...we needed something we could do month to month on till I had time to find something doable. We checked with owners of building Y lived in owned or handled by Peach Rentals. They would do month to month, and also had furnished as we only brought with us what would fit in back of our covered shell mazda gray truck we called Peppie. Got that from movie Romancing the Stone...the Mexican they went to had Peppie his li'l mule so that was our mule. This building had an upstairs area and a basement apt area..we were in basement...no windows but tiny high no see out windows. So don't know if me or Bob but called it the Peach Pit. Right by the Capital. Here pic on Woodland Ave.

So I was stuck there no see, in the pit. Fought cockroaches bad there.. I hate them. Welcome to hate KY from start for me. You would think Y would have seen them too when u have that many cock roaches them are all over a building...but he never say anything about those. Maybe they never bothered him. Live in a building they don't know existed?? or they never do anything about complaints?? Weird shit to me...when you rent. I found then a place to rent apt think they call them but this unit we were in was kinda like a patio home..our unit just having 2 for that building and it was on Ridgeview Dr.. off Schinkel..6 month lease this had we moved..this great for renting. 2 br split floorplan 2 baths LR Kitchen just a long counter no table area but fine...inside laundry room. I had to search for used furniture.. did buy new bed for us think...and maybe a dresser cheap...purchased used washer/dryer even. Reason show a bit more is cause other Unisys people rented building there R side.

F them they will not let me add to the bottom of this shit no allow me words even trying html to add lines. We stayed here a while, we did have thanks giving there for Unisys ppl a few came I did for them that came of course had never used the stove... well that turkey did not get totally done as one of the elements out... so a royal failure that was... the men of course watch foot ball flipping channels at commercials all men seem to hate... and it is kinda a fight as to whom had the remote. Me of course an observer of happenings.

Peppie did get broken into at this parking lot and they stole bob's cassette tapes 8 track. Welcome to number 2 live KY. Well Bob decided he wanted his own boat...buy a bass tracker... can't have here.. so went looking for new place to live... and rented the house on Chinook Trail...I wrote about a happening there battle wow. Will link that story about Daddy and I battling as it spiritual attack on me 3rd house. Welcome to KY.

Monday, November 22, 2021

Dad Spent Time With Son's

For a first post really about Bob and being a dad, he was great with his son's will later if still have team pictures even with Bob he always was involved. Coached certain team sports even with them. Bob and I even during raising our children did great really in a worldy sense where marriage and raising of children went I think. Two thumbs up I would give him. Great provider..changed jobs to be with his son's too...so had his boy's in mind...a desire he did have that man to be better than how raised I feel...and he did this. Teaching training and would have those boy's involved with his projects if they wanted..very willing man to train in all he knew..and he was a handy man..not afraid to learn himself how to fix and do anything. He continues to this day to even share any knowledge he has regarding any questions.

He got involved with us women wanting and playing softball even as we had not good coaches and ones would not stay to coach us..as in having no practice. You can't win anything without it even in the Word of God. There it was lacking. A lot of his involvement for women's team was begging him my girlfriend Becky across the street, she knew he coached son's...and Becky wanted practice Bob would do this with boy's team. We all did have lots of fun during all those years, friends as we even played then co-ed ball..so fun years they were and very active and busy, Becky chose wisely, her husband played co-ed too. So fun years, not centered around work or work people. To me even being around all those people I had the best of the lot couldn't have asked for better.

Children grow up and leave...for us a totally new ball game. Will share good highlight as that was a lot of years of fun. Struggles are in everything we had our share believe me during this time even.

As a parent you desire or at least I did I have no clue how Bob feels he didn't talk much.. but for me, my desire for son's was to get just the best qualities from each of us. Not carry on the bad qualities.

There was no place I could think of being to raise children, perfect small starter home view everything front and back..great to keep eye on front and back.. by one of the best parks there was..close we walked and walked to elementary school without the thing being in view. Could not have asked for better, it was tops. No one in family had it that good..purchased boat even..did that also while young.. best we had, paid 26,250.00 for that house, Bob's dad purchased for us VA loan no money down, he sold to us for $1.oo..new construction completed except flooring and I maybe upgraded stove I chose, original color black trim, I had choice of several that model and location but think that total...moved my sis birthday 3/28/1974 or 5. The black faded with AZ sun over the year, I chose new color blue. Mounted police at park..it was a wow park...bad part on other side of canal and tracks, Guadalupe and dealing with Mexican gangs at time.

Becky and I kept our street clean and clear of them, boy's dealt more with in high school.

Bob's mother purchased 1/2 this house when he had to move Glendale, then to Mesa each them about a year and had to buy out his mom get our house back.. interesting numbers and parent involvement. Think we put price at 32,000.00 then for her by half of. I will have to look up what it was set at when we buy back..and interesting think Bob made his sister be straw party sale to clear title.

Tuesday, November 16, 2021

How met = setup? or God?

Well I was out of high school...got a job at the State mental institution on State St.. They had like their own Kelly girl division. You would be sent to cover people vacations, sick, or left position wait for new higher type thing. So girls who trained easily for these type things. When in your department not on assignment, you typed Doctor things with mental patients...some of them wrote, some used recorders you would type from Dictaphone recordings. Well you saw what lots of them were even there fore and why...lots of veterans, most from service time untreated venereal disease. I was sent a lot...learned them train me.. so even learned and covered the OLD PBX phone operating system trunk line connect. You had to type so many words per minute to even get job here. The job I had in school was not a typing job..but was and did take high school entered program called OEA office education association.. me just want get out of school. Get school credit go work leave school.. so asked Cousin's Jeweler's (Jewish owners Anderson) big sis work there first, ask them to do for me they did.

Well lots went on that time...my older sis already married..lived real close think Parnell right by there would go her house walk and eat lunch her house them gone. she worked for our daddy then.. and they let me do that. While there also had friend who got Daddy GSD pup..me choose..no papers..this one some did but most didn't had extra due-claws (I paid took vet to remove due-claws that pup)..not that he asked for a dog but got one...I named him King...well I would find stray critters bring home, did as child once on Edgewater..GSD...I gave that one a name, called him Prince... anyway did find owner for Prince and here that was the dogs name as I remember...can't remember how daddy found owner though.

Also had friend Leah forget them's last name.. She wanted me go with her to AZ visit her sister lived Mesa, hubby worked coal mines or something what remember about her hubby was a new type jeans..he would be so filthy, come home spray himself off with hose..hang to dry..would wear again.. Anyway Leah and I would take her sisters car go out, had not met anyone really, stopped gas station.. dude there Skip Metcalf found out later as here lived with Bob. Sent us to "The Library" A college hang-out...so kids no lie say going to the library tell parents. Right close to ASU...Tempe. So we went he gave us directions say he would be there when off work would look for us. Well we found out things totally different there than Indiana. In Indiana when you went out with the girls...you were darn picky who you would even dance with. That was showing interest in the dude spend time with thing. Not AZ word them changed constantly never talking while dancing totally weird to us....have different partner each dance...weird. I told her we will never meet a person from here. Anyway, so ended up dancing with Bob, him I did introduce myself to... first thing out of that dudes mouth was, you are not from AZ are you? I said No am not, am from Indiana, here vacation almost done. Well we did dance more together then and he ask me go outside talk so did.

Well we left went to house renting think 3 guy's the one forget name...him had an Irish setter litter of pups...open door play with.. then Skip came home and say that always happens to him, he sends them and Bob ends up with them...I had told Leah to go home I didn't know when be there but Bob say he would take me.. so she left...well we talked late you don't want to wake house...so just stay night there..had him take me morning. Oh nothing happen but kisses.. but did have sleep in his bed.. he had king size water mattress on floor no frame or nothing just the mattress.

Next day went to friend of Leah's sisters in Mesa.. chat with her.. the neighbor came accross the street join us..them friends... talked about happenings at The Library ... neighbor say well my brother goes there... what name? Bob Jacobs sheeesh word.. set up or plan? I say well I met him stay night.. Anyway think we had to leave...he wanted to take me airport.. so let him.. wore a "cure virginity" t-shirt...word embarrassing that was, but sis exchange phone numbers address. Well I did know the dudes birthday it was coming up.. 4-19 we were on spring break time for our vacation.

Tell little sis about, now she worked Hallmark card gift shop at mall.. asked her pick out card for me send him. Well she did, now I did sign and send it... then found out his grandmother got hit by train, and he had to fly Chicago to go her funeral.

Even Bob's mom said to me she hated to see us have children in this world, scared could not see a future even her...took years for that go away.

To Be continued...the next part even weirder.

Friday, November 12, 2021

A vision? Near death experience?

I had brought this up as did post about my drivers training from my Daddy. This of course before married, Bob had taken me to the river where they would go tubing down the river. Take their drinks beer, float in a group down the river...so took me to do this.

He then did bring up something that had happened to him and I didn't know what it really meant as he did not tell me. He had tipped over at some rapids area and could swim.. but was pulled under water and could not get up. He said he saw his life flash before his eyes.. then like stopped the struggle I guess seeing it and it made him like go under things and pop up from the current. I actually had the feeling whatever he saw shocked him maybe?? enough to make him stop fighting to come up top the water. Anyway I did not know what it meant for someone that young really to have his life flash before his eyes.

Now did after mentioning this got the impression my question was answered by Matthew.. felt he said past as I had asked could it have been future? I just then said, well if past it sure didn't stop the drinking. I was not sure reading him properly but thought if the boys maybe see this to mention saw and ask him about it. See if he will say to you what he saw flash as in life before his eyes meant. Something different than computer things...and something I never did know.

Tuesday, August 24, 2021

NO MORE POSTS

There will be no more posts on these sites...will build to help the only person in family that talks to me normal whom I have known since high school, my sister Con, only one that would often come see me. So will skin the cat, preventing my site for my brother-in-law, my sister's family deserves support with their things. My family well who the heck knows.

If you are interested in anything else have fun. Scroll all you want here on my life. When I see this type shit well it is very fitting for septic that is for sure, when you promote man over Yeshua and the Gospels you must really suck.

Thursday, August 19, 2021

Some dog years

Instructions left to sons while we were in KY 1995 contract

We of course used to laugh and tease saying our children wouldn’t leave home so we did lol well we didn’t have dogs any longer...told the kids not to get one I think but josh did I think he got Harley then. Josh was a critter dude hahaha like his mom so I would let him get several things… he had lots more than I ever did. But hey I liked watching them too.

1999 move to KY

Joe Crisp working thru us..lived backed up to maybe down a house to owner of our rental… Joe had a herding dog forget the breed, black white sheep dog remember watching movies about the breed and competitions with them they will also use that breed for akc field stuff race.. .you don’t get dogs like that with nothing to do. Anyway he had back surgery all kinds of stuff problems and finally put the young dog down.

My dog training Farm started 2005

Well bob made me all that stuff to play with for the dogs, never competed just had fun with them. Weaving in and out the poles made dog ramp sch for that… made my jumps...used old house vinyl and velcro to stick how high wanted it...made my own balance beam using piece of wood 2x4 lifted on brick just liked to play. Just was curious once learned some things from David just what a pup could learn and how fast...for myself really.

Jacobs Family Personal Items of Aunt Sis's

1999 - Aunt Sis moved to full care

As I said these stories will be all over the place in year...trying to put year so son's can if want sort to get that in order should they desire too. Just post as led and remember. Well Betty was living with us by this time I believe, as we were planning move to KY. Mary was living in Portland with sister Susan as had moved their after divorce. I had all the dealings all the years with Aunt Sis and who she had in charge of taking care of everything for her. Bill Fessler, as I remember he was and how met is the Bank she always used. That is my memory of him and I am probably the only person to have to this day Bill's personal information. Well it was Bill that even got her into this retirement home, and as I recall just in the nick of time...Sis had an apartment living on her own there, of which Bill had explained to me that you purchase, and own...there were things tied to that...what offered then was full care when you could no longer care for yourself. The apartment then would go back to them to re-sell.

Now why this was done...Aunt Sis had breast cancer, and did have radiation treatments, I am assuming cancer, even though the term was not used...but she had to have radiation. She also had dementia. Aunt Sis before even Bill made that move would call me in KY when we were just there 1995 on when just Bob and I were temp in KY him a consultant, Aunt Sis would call me as always and tell me about needing to find place. Well I let too Betty know this even though they would not talk..Betty wanted me try to talk her in to coming to AZ for this, well did mention to Sis..not the way she ended up doing. So 2 reasons for this move for Bill. He always called and kept me informed. I would relay info to Bob and his mother. She could either inform others of family or not, was not up to me. Why me? Well Betty and Sis didn't talk, Betty had also gotten pissed with her, used to talk to her, but really pissed as Aunt Sis was always changing her will.. Betty hated that, didn't feel it should be done. Reason Aunt Sis would do these things is because no one in that family would talk to her but me. Once in a great while Mary, but she would even hang up on her...the thing Mary always did for years..was send her a card for every occasion. Susan, was her favored, as her mother favored Bob, so Aunt Sis stepped in for Susan. Then Susan wouldn't even speak to her. So I basically was the only person that Aunt Sis could call and talk to of that family.

I would always let her speak to my sons, and every once in a while as she set a timer for calls, and I could hear that and know...I would force Bob to say hi when her time about done. Betty went with me to Chicago, as it again me sent to do this, and get her things...Betty wanted to go with me...Bill very upset about it as how Sis felt about Betty and their falling out. She went anyway. Well to Bill's surprise, Betty was whom she recognized and you would have thought nothing happened between then.

I made Bob one time write her even a letter, he told me what would I even say, I said talk about the boys and you coaching etc. He did do that..and on one travel trip talked to Bill.

It was Betty and I though that went through all of her things in that apartment, as she had been moved to full care. She had saved that letter from Bob all thoughs years and I had found it. We loaded all in back of Bob's truck as that is what I drove to do this. It was then Betty who decided who got what of the Jacobs things, as nothing was recovered from Bob's dad's death for family. She chose on all items, and then proceeded to have sent to each child.

At this time in Betty's life, she had 2 blood great-grand-children both girls.. one from Josh, and I believe also at the time 1 from Ian, Mary's son. Only ones she had. Of course am sure when Sis's dad passed things divided to go the Bob's dad and to keep Aunt Sis. Well Carolyn had all from Bob's dad. This was how personal belongings of Aunt Sis were then divided to the Jacobs children of Betty's.

Mary with all her moving, as even when she came to KY with all these things, she moved from town to town in KY..breaking most all given from Aunt Sis. I did feel bad for her and gave her a couple things given me. Well then even way before that...Mary living in same subdivision married Jeff... She want Aunt Sis to come out.. then kick her out of her house that of course when I was playing tennis still so around 1989 or 90...well where the heck can you go with set flight plans.. Betty didn't want her either, it was Mary's doing... Bob no want her it was Mary's doing let her deal with it.. Will tell you that great story too,,, stay tuned.

Sunday, July 11, 2021

Jeremy's Baptism and godparents

1972-2-26 Jeremy Lee Jacobs birth - 1972-4-23 Baptism Godparents Carey Ehrman and Cheryl Ehrman Well was going through looking for paper for the divorce and still have some of J's things so took pics again of them. Found very interesting the numbers tied to the child, on his birth certificate he is Registered No. 917 on 2-29-1972

On his baptism a scripture from Matthew... 28:19 Very fitting of Father, and give the child a heart for a server for the Lord that he was given.

Matthew 28:19 (KJV) Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

And fitting the name Matthew actually being Yeshua-Matthew in the flesh. I had one child saved from death (Joshua) as a child, and it was the reading of that book Matthew God did a miracle.. I just find all things very interesting. Now my little brother Chris would call them cowinky dinks just a phrase he used saying God involved. Baptism. The other tie, was to my sister's husband Larry his birthday is same day and he is about the only one that speaks normal with me and answers my questions, but I have known Larry since high school, my sister and I double dated a lot together then.

Other dates tied to J is his second time marrying Natalie...I think that was Sept 29th Aunt Sis birthday.

Wednesday, June 2, 2021

Santa Clause At The Jacobs

Well it was with the internet I was actually able to research this, and the concept and what had really happened a good story. Like everything else just got perverted by man. In a way, the truth of it reminds me of the movie "Pay It Forward" I think is the name. Another great concept.

Oh wow stopped video to insert link and here at .41 and the look pic of that dude weird...

Anyway upon moving to AZ, of course talked to Bob's mom a lot. I would ask questions wanting to know how her children were raised. When I heard how she did Christmas regarding Santa Clause, I thought it was a great concept, especially for us just starting out. She would only permit the children to ask for one toy from Santa, no list just one toy. Well they always got that toy...now for her that toy was the only one under the tree from Santa and never ever gift wrapped. It was out front for all to see. They knew that all other packages were from people a spirit of giving day...or just extra things from parents.

So we started doing this. Now Josh, he hated Santa, would cry being put on that dudes lap. Took a few years to get over that one. I think what I might have done the next year to help him was ask if both boys could go at the same time...so Josh wasn't alone he had his big brother.

Anyway it was a way to find out what they really wanted and forced them to think about it. Cause they just might get only 1 thing....so make it your most important thing.

Well of course memory of J first, as I think this was what he wanted the year Josh was born, so 1975. J wanted an Evil Knievel? have to look that up... anyway a motorcycle launch...crank it up let it take off. It was red the crank part. So what did the child do? Ran straight for that toy and never wanted to open anything else... all those gifts wrapped just sat and sat and sat. Well I let it go, to see what would happen. After a couple hours that child needed to get dressed and take it out front to show it off to the neighborhood and launch that cycle down the sidewalk.

Well I finally made him come in and open the gifts. Anyway with this concept, my children knew there was no Santa at a very young age. So mom changed it up some sometimes. Would have scavenger hunts...and sometimes include scriptures in them. So it then became a different game. I used to make them stand and read their clue out loud before proceeding.

Well then Bob's sister wanted Ian to be part of that, so there was times he was included...meaning it came later.

Always allowed them to get their stockings, them boys would wake up early...and of course at that time they have tv games and usually put a new one in stocking to busy themselves and not wake us up.

So we did different things as ages progressed.

Holiday's were a hard time for me, most people take turns seeing different sides of the family, I always wanted to go home at least once...never happened. So my children never saw how my family gathered.

Sunday, May 2, 2021

Jacobs Baptism and Blessing

August 15, 1988

My Dad and Mom came out to Arizona to see us but ultimately to baptize well he knew for sure I would, so I think his main concern was me. Dad and Mom were not around our children enough to know what they would do. He knew I didn't go to church, nor take my family to church. He did however know I would allow him to baptize me just because I was a Daddy's girl, and did follow directions within our chats and what he sent me. So for sure Daddy was after me...see how the rest went. Why? Because Daddy knew that his other children had been baptized...only ones not were to him Cheri and I. Well he knew how Cheri felt about that, so only way it would happen with her, is if mom somehow talked her into it. Now me Daddy knew me...so he wanted to make sure I was baptized.

Well I received as well as the family also a video, so yes Daddy was concerned about the Lord coming and me not being baptized. Then got to his mission, he wanted to baptize me. Well explaining to us that the baptism we had as babies is not baptism, it is dedication to the Lord and providing people of same beliefs willing to see that if anything happened to them, they would make sure the children would have knowledge of the Lord..(godparents) . Then he explained about real baptism, John the Baptist never baptized children that I see or babies and about repentance..does God know the heart? true repentance? for all to hear wanted to make sure we repented and wanted to baptize me. Well anyone can be baptized but what the heck good does it if not from the heart repentance? Only God sees the heart. Well I agreed for Dad and Mom to baptize me. The boys of course decided right away they wanted to be baptized also. Bob waited a bit was last..he did decide to be baptized what condition heart? What age still considered child? Can God honor some baptism? not others? We really are not told all the answers to these questions..what is answered is this..when the Spirit of the Lord is put on you. Well to me I had gone forward as a child with a child's heart. Did I repent, you betcha, from the heart..Father opened my ears. Opened J the same way older he was yet also when young. some say double anointing tern? Well He certainly gave them gifts for sure. All were baptized outside, in the Jacobs pool.

After we were baptized then given direction as to a walk with the Lord I was. Daddy gave me as I asked for it the little bible he had...a Jimmy Swaggert Counselors addition of the New Testament. So Daddy said he would and wanted to write in it for me. I wrote about that at this link and have a picture of the bible and words written. He also gave me a scripture for baptism in that link talk about that.

I also remember Daddy saying something about Blessing my sons. Inside the house of Jacobs he did this. I was not there heard from other room as he had given me my Bible...so was reading what he wrote and stuff. Now that is my memory. The boys would be the ones to know if this actually happened. I did ask Matthew to pray with me the other day and ask Father with me that He open their memory to remember this. So this has been done.

I do know Daddy baptized my sister Cheri's children without her knowing, he did that at one of her visits with the children when just Daddy and the children were in Cline Lake where they lived.

I also know from my sister Connie, that Daddy did baptize Mitchel, I don't know however if he did any other grandchildren.

I hope to find out this information with my trip to Florida.

What I find interesting about the boys baptism, is the age of my son Joshua, as he was 13 yrs going by Jewish counting of age I believe, which was the age of Ishmael when he was circumcised.

I was instructed by Daddy to "read the Gospels and start with the book of John" So that is what I have basically done. Daddy never told me to go read any other book in the bible never mentioned another one. So that is where I pretty much stayed...doing as instructed. Of course only bible he gave me then was New Testament, so even the Bible given me was New Testament.

Was Daddy led of the Lord to do this with me? Well I believe so, but then Daddy didn't know I had given my son's to the Lord as I didn't know how to raise them. I never mentioned that to Daddy. So Daddy never knew I had done that, neither my mom. I guess maybe because my mom felt I was so bad, maybe, asked the Lord to help me as she basically put a curse? on me, heard them talk that before, by saying "I hope you have to raised a child just like yourself" like wow she thought I was horrible, she used to try to get me in trouble with Daddy.

So this is how our family did get baptized. Does baptism save anyone? Not water baptism to me, are you forgiven if repent when baptized yes I believe you are, but then what the heck do people go do, sin some more.. haha Yeshua never said baptism saved them that I found, but hey raise your hand if you think different. He did request all be baptized in the name of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit though. But who is the father of jesus (zeus?) you think he have a son? and spirit?

Plus I have learned a lot since then as to when you actually receive and who's house you are in when you receive. Daddy was going more by what taught by man...but knew Yeshua's words.

My prayer to Father is that he have the boys remember...because I have no clue what that one prophet said over me! haha just ask if good to Daddy he said yes so forgot it.

Saturday, May 1, 2021

Jeremy and Joshua a year old +

At this age they are starting some already walking. Well we could not afford hardly anything starting out...yet parents purchase toys for grandchildren we did at special occasions. I couldn't even afford to buy a toy box for them. So what I do well toys are usually out in the living room when tiny. I got a cardboard box, for a few cents purchased sticky back drawer and shelf paper, and covered the box with it so it looked nicer in the living room.

Toys out during the day, well always comes time to pick them up. So I would stand behind them take a hand in each one my hands walk them over to a toy and walk them to toy box to drop it in. Over and over I did this. Yes took some time it is slow with them little ones...but didn't take them long when I said pick up your toys and put them in the box...they walked and did it themselves. It was quicker then lol Then I was just the monitor...point out if they missed one...make them go get it. Not done till you are done.

So I was hard on my children...today might get reported. Child abuse you know. Forcing a 1 year old to pick up their toys...how dare you. Why she is making that child clean house at a year old.

And even where my husband was concerned and his mowing the yard as they were older 2 push type mowers...lower bar they can reach..hold on and walk with child..slow slow mowing but what does it teach? They say the first 5 years are some of the most important years of learning. Just what do you teach yours?

Jeremy & Joshua as 3-6 month olds

Because I did this with both my sons, I just am not putting a year. All mothers, of course start with the milk first, then move to rice cereal, then add apple sauce usually how the pattern goes. Most mom's will follow that and do the right thing making their child eat this.. baby spits out, wipe face with spoon catching it and shoveling it again. Where mom's fail, are in the next phases, when we have to deal with veggies, and meats, oh yes and them cobbler desert type things, good sweets they seem to do well on. Start mixing the fruit even some mom's give in and don't buy a fruit any longer as they spit out. So let me ask you...just who is it that creates a picky eater?? Shall I hand you a mirror to look into??

Now there are some mom's well I did this, who will taste that stuff they put out for babies. Some of it tastes like crap, wouldn't want to eat it myself. So what do? Handy dandy grinder for baby, I would make myself. I ate peas, babies don't seem to like them...well I prefer frozen, not that mushie canned stuff. Hey it is cheaper than baby food and buy and cook...and grind in this:

So I used to make my children as tiny eat all different kinds of things. Now my husband to this day over 70 and will not eat a pear. Well who's fault was that? For this day and age...unfortunately we have people living on junk food. I think everyone should be poor to be forced to cook make lots of meals with just one chicken...no not the boneless, skinless..buying them whole low cost ones cutting them up yourself. For you one meal at McDonalds for dinner well heck I could make many meals...feed lots of children many meals. So you can blame it on parenting and woman who won't cook. Monkey see monkey do. What Gov do, feed the habit even with food stamp program...assign food, whole chicken, hamberger, how many different things make with them? Noodles rice, frozen veggies, fruit what ever is lowest cost to feed family. Basics of life there is a song about it.

Well everyone has things they don't prefer, and that is fine too, but refusing to even taste new things it creates too. One movie thought so funny of course this was a child turned big, but tasted everything, now some didn't like hahaha but tasted it all for goodness sakes...obviously a child raised to eat. I just laugh at this movie clip start at marker :20 to :54 then move to 1:36 to 2:10 hahaha but he tasted it. Now that is not a normal diet...but fact is he tried it...picky eaters don't like the look and turn away.

Saturday, April 24, 2021

JJ and the Jack In A Box

late 1972 - 1973

Now don't ask me why I did this, probably cause it was a toy he liked and I didn't want to get up early with the child, hoped he would sleep in. So put in back corner of his crib the jack in a box.

Well every morning that child would be sitting up cranking that thing center bed so every morning I woke to this sound.

Friday, April 16, 2021

Jeremy and Mormon boy

1974-1975

Well our first home, was actually provided for us for $1.00 by Bob's Dad. With his Dad being divorced, he didn't feel he would use his government benefit from military service to purchase a home no down payment. So in investigating things done by gov...he found it could be sold. So his Dad offered to do this for us when we moved to AZ. I chose the house, trying to fit our income to support house payment, as our rent was only 150.00 a month. We chose, a house for cost I believe as I wanted one thing changed and that was color of stove, got rust. Paid total, 26,250.00 to my memory, model #1305 which was total sq ft of place. We chose house already built...black trim, silver gray bottom colors stucco and block. so all needed was interior done. It didn't take long and we were in. As I recall payment was $250.00 a month could have been cents on that don't remember. I remember our loan being sold, don't know how long that was either. Chose darker green carpet, just standard come with house.

Well found out Mormon's next door west of us, never heard of them or religion before, so only way to even find out then is asking questions on belief's which I am good at...hahaha That family had an older son than Jeremy, and she would not speak to me, however she did allow her child to play out front as I did Jeremy to stay well at home, but they played together at boarder between houses on sidewalk.

Jeremy would take out his tonka trucks and just different things to play with and that child would take them from him and go over under his carport where Jeremy was not permitted to go. So he would come crying to me about it. Well pissed me off she wasn't watching her child.

So had to teach Jeremy to stand up to even bigger guys that rob from him. Well I did walk over and said something to the little boy about that being Jeremy's truck he took and did get it back. I refused to do that for the child each time, so he was either going to stand up to this kid fight told him, or not play with him. Well it was only child he could play with. So how bad you want to play with someone else?

Well Jeremy was one smart child, and did stand up to him and fought that child hitting him which I did encourage. Only way to stop if beat the child up. Well that child ran home crying, as I watched the whole thing, when you are teaching something you best watch. I was just waiting for that woman to even show her face...would have been out in a flash to defend my son.

I talked to the dad next door, and told him that his wife wouldn't talk to me, had heard they were Mormon and curious about the religion never had heard of it before. So of course he gave me lots of information, explained his wife was a convert and they are the worst kind. She wanted married temple, so went through all their ceremonies wore strange underwear being married. He however raise many generations I guess, said they are not like that. So my first exposure to Morman's. I was just shocked at what these consisted of which he did tell me...am sure from wife telling him. Well they run most of Mesa, AZ. Janet on our softball team also mormon many generations...what was she? A Lesbian. Well of course you can't find anything about the "man" mormon ceremonies for that church online. Evil they are, lure you with KJV, once hooked totally different.

Well that child of theirs never robbed from my son again after he beat the crap out of him even being littler I think it shocked the child...and they did play together at boarder of properties. So Jeremy, an only child at that time had to learn to stand at very young age.

Thursday, April 15, 2021

First Surgery Josh

1976

When Joshua, was about 6 months old, I had taken him to the doctor, they were Jewish, Kerr, Brown, and Schwartz. Well maybe not all not sure about Kerr. It was Kerr I had seen that morning, as I recall, anyway they said it was gastroenteritis. Well he wasn't on that long at all, and what had happened next is his stool had blood in it. I freaked out...call the Doctors, on call, happened to be Schwartz, met him at the hospital. Betty at that time was in Albuquerque.

Well from the hospital running him there, I called mom and dad for prayer and told them what had happened. I forget how long it took, am sure as this is how our family operates, my mom was calling brothers, sisters to pray getting word out..I just believe they did that. The first thing Doctor tried as what had happened is, that his intestines were being pushed through bowels, as stool, is how explained to me. Happens to people they will loose intestine usually from bacteria. They tried pushing it back using an enema type procedure. That did not work and they couldn't put to much pressure. So came out told us they would have to do surgery.

While waiting for all that going on, we called Betty, in Albuquerque to let her know what was going on and gave her all the information we were told. She like pretty fast, got in her car and drove to AZ to get there. That of course making it a bit more concerning to me.

Well they were able to repair it pulling it back I guess have no clue what they do, but he lost no intestine was fine I guess, they didn't have to cut any out.

Well of course I don't like hospitals, and then a baby with tubes everywhere you don't want them to have to keep poking needles in the child. Well Betty got there and that didn't stop her by golly, they had his arm tapped to a board so wouldn't move pulling out the needles for I guess antibiotics given. Well Betty would hold him...and the needles did come out and sheesh, had them in head then just a nightmare.

Was glad to get him home from that one. I can't remember how long he was in the hospital. Anyway Schwartz, assured me that Kerr made the right call. I found that interesting. So he has a scar there on tummy...I can't remember what side.

Over all a praise report as the child lost no intestine, so did call mom and dad and let them know...and thanked them for their prayers. Again, now we did rush him to hospital as directed...but first on list call prayer.

Monday, April 12, 2021

Morning Dove Glendale - to KY demands put on.

1998-1999 AZ Glendale - to KY

Josh had purchased a home this side of town moved shortly before this with Carla and Sammie. They both worked for same company, Mormans as I recall this side town. Bob wanted to be out close to lake Pleasant after return from KY, so sold Sesame St house in Tempe. So we purchased same close area of Glendale, pretty close to Josh. Plus we were building our retirement home AZ mountains started that, so closer for running..name place again interesting Blueridge Estates. Blueridge happened to be street of first house purchased in KY when we moved. Also interesting about mountain AZ property was Catholic church built close to it a heavens gazing place.

The boys had talked their dad into several things with that house..wiring music even outside and pool table. Some things remember...Josh having care Sammie home before Carla as recall, she was fine till mom walked in door, complaining. That child turning totally different, and Josh basically did all for her anyway. We had no dog talked about getting one for mountains, Bob wanted Golden Retriever, not me. So while he was out of town KY..sent Jeremy think both as gave 100 for her, to pick out pup from this litter I wanted. Well he brought home his pick told me about it might also have talked phone while there. So called Bob told him about it in KY...wanted to know if he had a name... he said call her History, haha as in gone I think. Other thing my sister Cheri had moved to Tucson her husband promoted stationed there.

Cheri, came to help me decorate some, we put up all Betty paintings I had, she purchase and made flower arrangement for my entry.. and we took the pup with us and drove mountains to show her where building. Pup got sick on return think, so had to work with her about car sickness..and figure that out, which we used visiting Josh for daily almost, let her then play with Harley like reward. I held her while Bob drove..figured out if she saw out front fine...if looking me holding her side, she got sick, so would let her sit my lap hold face look forward fixed it. I sleep with new pup tucked at belly so don't cry at night..also know potty..not that long for them to know maybe week? Then put color on them leash tied with their bed at my side..drop hand down to know when hear them, if won't shut up take them out, let know I am there...sometimes all you need, they don't want to potty bed.

Bob working from home, I did get part time job at walmart well at cell phone company with booth set up in walmart, sold cell phones, just asked Bob he can't remember neither me on why left, didn't last long. So was home, we had put two desks in one bedroom so was in office with Bob, had to be quiet...used head phones. Listened to and called in even to program called "prepare for war" got anointing oil from them, and of course heard prophet Daniel Bohler warnings about nuking Lexington KY. Well all the sudden Unysis had to have Bob back in KY, I said NO you are working remote can do and not leave, building house we were. Pressure put on him, I just cryed to the Lord, we had huge closet mstr bedroom went inside sat floor crying, didn't want to go get nuked!! So I put all these things on this..wouldn't leave children either.. So said well if boys move family move and you get that done train them Unysis higher them give jobs and Josh in divorce at that time, so wanted Samantha too my family, and 3 homes to sell as our sons had their own homes!! So lots of demands put on that for it to even be able to happen.

Well who the heck knew the boys would agree hahaha, and J think first to sell place moved in with us we had 4 bedroom place. Josh close just drove over..Bob started training them from the house. They would take breaks and shoot pool. Re Samantha, well Carla's mom talked to me didn't want Carla to have her, she was horrible mother, had moved in with Kathy, and she ended up with care. So could that happen?? Well it did, Carla gave consent to leave state with her. Then Bob's mom wanted to go, as Mary had moved to Portland, OR where Susan was after her divorce. So a 4th house to sell. Well Betty's sold right away..she moved in with us. All stuff put in storage together.

When time to move boys moved first..Bob and I went with them to help set up..a mess moved in one place...then those boys had to load it all up again and move to another place after a while. First in Silver Lakes... then Duckers. While at Silver Lake, Sammie fell broke collar bone. Welcome to KY.

Bob would then travel and stay with boys while in KY think. Our place wasn't selling, last to go. The man was going to leave me in AZ with his mother till place sold... I had a fit at that one, sought the Lord about it. I then emailed Bob about it that not right, you don't leave wife behind...and with his mom. Well wasn't to long, he called me and what said after I said hello... he said "Pack it, pack that shit you are moving to KY" So it was a step to trust the Lord to sell the place. So we sent Betty out by airplane for boys to get, we rented moving truck hired they were Mexicans to come load and pack truck for long distance move and those guys did a great i mean great job. We didn't move the L shaped office desks, Bob can't remember but I thought gave them to movers, he said when they took apart they punched hole in wall and Bob had to repair it while we were moving out.

What a trip that was, over my birthday even. Ice storm when hit Albuquerque into Texas pan handle. Scary trip. I followed Bob driving his white Ford truck with Lacy in back seat. Lacy didn't drink, didn't eat, didn't go potty once held it all the way there...weird. Anyway Bob had had Scot and Jimmy Lynn find us place..just asked Bob he don't think put anything on it. Scot Paterson a helicopter pilot for Regan. Jimmy Lynn was Bob's annalist. That place horrible with wiring of box..fire waiting to happen.. we refused it but had sent the money from AZ for us. That man wouldn't give us our money back..we took pics and everything shouldn't have been permitted a rental. Well took that one to the Lord too. Was told He would take care of it basically forget scripture gave me. Well waterline broke was in his name we didn't transfer it... and flooded that dudes house hahahaha had to pay huge water bill. again welcome to KY. So I looked place found one immediately backed up to National Guard Armory KY...think want to say 750 a mo. empty got right in tiny place like we own some 1064 sq ft. the 3 of us, did have fenced yard...so Dec 1999. Well before end of that month house sold closed same month AZ...all done fax.

I went looking immediately for house to buy, we did look some on land what Bob wanted and nothing, so I went myself looking. Found the one on Blueridge, want to say purchased 114000. We moved in there in February. want to say. That was a fight too...as Bob again didn't want to pay for it cash, pissed me off as I had worked to get us debt free. I think Josh might have been there at that one...I wanted the man to prove to me what gain be if loan. He wanted that cash to play stock market...well I knew it, you don't do that except with extra money not livelihood. Well he paid cash..

So that was our welcome to KY too, the boys got one and we got one. I did realize, the reason, God wanted those boys trained by their Dad and only him as he is that good..can't find that in programmers. I wrote about it here.

Sunday, April 11, 2021

Josh and Soccer

Josh was so funny to watch with soccer. These sports we put them in, you don't know if they will like it or not till you try something. Josh being so tall for his age...they often wanted him to play goal. They liked his height, plus could catch, and wasn't afraid to block or get hit. On My!! He couldn't stand it doing nothing though, so board with nothing to do that child if team at other end. He would kick at the netting..get tied up in it lol

Well Josh and Cody were a couple of the best on the team and used to play being friends with it a lot. I want to say too...I think they also messed with doing hacky-sack. They of course had their own messing around with it no competition type stuff... just loved kicking. So actually for as tall as Josh was he did have good coordination skills.

What one child had or started into it was like all had to have it learn too. Determined he was to learn, didn't care how many times fall or skin knees, just kept at it till good. Found a video on how small a hacky sack is...but could not find just some kids messing with it for fun short.. so will put this one just to see. Very first shows it this one actually shows you can make them at home...really helps coordination skills.

Thursday, April 8, 2021

Mother's Day Hit In Eye

We played softball many years even extra co-ed covers lots of years

I have no idea why this story, but Bob was the woman's softball team coach for us. We started I think with other coaches didn't care for them...anyway can't remember if maybe Becky my neighbor asked him or how came to be, but he agreed to coach the team.

Bob was a great coach, and great at practice things too...testing just everyone. Over the years he had me playing every position...well shouldn't say that every infield position...usually depending on team we played as that man would even go watch the other teams to find their habits, we lived walking distance to park so would just walk up and watch. Everyone loved him and his ability and interest in a winning team.

Most of us had little children would always take them...of course as my Daddy I whistled for my children when time to come to us. Was a whole team thing hahaha. If he needed something he relied a lot on me. Well our weakness showed up in not having good pitchers...so that man took me in the back yard worked with me till I became the pitcher. Unshakable chatter didn't distract me..pissed me off made me do even better I would say.

Well on Mother's Day at home we went out our front yard played catch...I just asked him about the story to get facts right. We had an olive tree in front yard. Also not sure why but he said it wasn't a softball it was a baseball we were playing catch with. Well he threw a wild throw and it hit branch of olive tree and hit me right in the left eye. The boys not sure they will remember or not...they were upset.

I got a huge black eye and talking to Bob just now about it he felt bad...but said it was so hard I had the stitch marks embedded into my eye..imprinted there. Well the thing like swelled almost closed.

Will be interesting see if boys remember that one haha We did win a lot of trophies with him coach.

Tuesday, April 6, 2021

Head Of House Correction

1973-1976

Now on this I have a family story I could probably tell to help understanding. For people to get a picture of how correction was done with myself and husband. On some matters I insisted their Dad deal with the problem being head of house. Like lighting a bed on fire with his dads lighter or in trouble because of what had happened with friends I caught.

If he would ground the child or forbid to play with friends which he had done, that punishes me. I am the one who has to enforce the punishment, not him. So basically the man grounded me...for reporting the child. I couldn't go see my friends with children he played with...that is punishing me. So how did I deal with it? Privately... told him he was punishing me did he realize that.

Told him how I was raised...used belt...hands were for love never use hands to spank child. I wanted it over and done with so the child would learn lessons from that, you don't listen do what others tell you, you follow our rules. My dad called it cleaning out the ears hahaha Well my husband didn't really care for how he was raised so did agree to try that. Well I told him he was the one to set the punishment, it was up to him to change it not me. A rule change by head of house.

Well, Bob had had correction spankings in school so understood me I guess. So while typing asked him about it. He told me at his school they had baseball bat he is drawing me a picture hahaha Moon Jr High.. well still don't really understand but said sawed 3 sides then drilled holes in it and yes tap on it so stuck pull off..he can't remember how tape was tied in exactly.

So we did come to agreement on these things. Now for myself I never had to use it don't think, however I sure would get it out and smack the kitchen counter with that belt a few times as warning you had better be hearing what I am telling you!! They believed me, so I don't recall having to use it.

So the belt got introduced and reminded of by me!!

Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Son's Desire To Support Family Before Marriage

2007

The desire of J's heart and reason even waited so long to marry, was because he wanted to make enough money to have a wife stay home to raise children...look what he got? She couldn't stay put...had to have part time jobs baby sitters to even do that... now you would think a woman coming from what she came from...woman having to support men...that would be a real blessing to her.

Remember Jeremy telling me she was just like me. haha kinda like Bob telling my mom I was just like her...it floored her. Well don't know what part Jeremy felt was just like me, except for her qualities of being a help to all and friendly to all. You try to figure these things out you know it was not spiritual qualities at all. She didn't even get baptized till moving to KY.

Well it was to her grandmother that is for sure that made it a point to talk to me at the wedding about Jeremy and Natalie, so worried Nat would make same mistake they all made having to support the men. She didn't think Natalie knew what she had in Jeremy. Told me at their wedding. The family thought a lot of him.

Did I do some work...yes, took in baby sitting of neighbors, and stayed home. When had to work I worked 2^nd shift..very very limited day care...Bob was then there. When Bob lost job...I worked 2 jobs...took in sewing at home extra work... making baby forget what called but put them up over cribs for baby's to look at watch turning..Bob used to help me, as he would apply for things... oh called baby mobile I did sewing, he did stuffing... but our children were raised by us not day care...and those starting years too.

J had to go to a lady for babysitting for short period once when needed to work.. and wow this lady she was great, J loved it there, a Catholic I think but had 17 children as i recall ridiculous amount never heard of such a number. Just until Bob got there to pick him up lived I think 8 of them at that time maybe more but in a 3 bedroom 2 story.. well lots were already grown in service etc but out of the house.

Most the time when J and Nat came to farm before marriage of course Tom would come too..but those spent most their time together, even flying kites haha shooting always and they would have full basement to themselves only needed to come upstairs to be boys and raid the frig hahaha.

Sunday, March 28, 2021

Joshua married a godless demon Carla

1995

Well Carla is probably tied to her soul mate...she married another godless demon. Was she given a chance? You bet, we took her in. She was even given second chance with second marriage to a Jew, wonderful guy Josh really liked him. I think Josh knew this as he wanted to include in their marriage baptism being done to both them...and marriage. Strange request. I said NO you were baptized by my Daddy. So I refused it.

Well there is nothing in this world but demons that follow man not God-Yeshua they don't even know the difference between out of the mouth of God and man, so everyone is married to demons.

Well even with their wedding, of which we paid for, just bitching from Carla, who's parents well if you can call them that...a step-dad in and out of jail and a half sibling I think in jail now. She got sound instruction and saw living difference...and graduated barely, as PG. She hated her real Dad, so have no clue what she was told about him...called him her biological father.

Bob felt blame they even married, he should have never taken her in was how he felt.

Even then, I was on the internet with military men. One came to Josh's reception...username Bad2Dbone I can't remember his real name but did know it. A Vietnam vet...had foreign wife...Worked also for Charles Schwab. Bob was used to me laughing at IRC in the 40+ channel. He would say back then...what are you laughing at...I would say these people on IRC.

Con came out to help with the wedding, as I had gone to Matthew's her sons. Now this to me an interesting thing happening. I had no daughters, didn't study them lol weddings were done by daughter family not son why the heck would i study that. I didn't know her parents wouldn't pay for it till last minute. Monica Tarr took her and her husband took all wedding photo's for them plus made their wedding cake. Shawn one of Josh's best friends. Well they had used to do wedding etc... but anyway not one pic of my sister at that wedding or reception...now that to me is weird. She might have gotten pic at kitchen sink can't remember. Well it upset Con as she was Josh's godmother. So good reason to me...I just told her didn't know what I was doing why didn't you say something.

So I do have all these wedding pictures here, they need to go to Samantha and will give them to her.

Thursday, March 25, 2021

Saving J - Birth Josh

1975

I had wanted another child and J was getting older, well don't know their dad was to keen on the idea but that man had drive if you know what I mean.. Well I could feel myself ovulate..so knew as he was leaving for work lol Well he was late that day. Told him to leave early to make up for it.

Anyway my sister then moved to Tucson, because of her husband change in service promotion I think. She was PG too...Trent they call T is about 3 months older than Josh. Well they had a dog they needed to get rid of...so comes to me of course. That was a whymer riner...yellow eyes...docked tail. So anyway found a home for him, think him not sure.

Reason I am bringing this up is because Bob's dad actually saved Jeremy's life. Bobs dad and Bob under him of course sold real estate way out it was a drive back then but not much traffic at all and of course 70 mpr speed limit. Well there was a built in pool at their office which was a home so Cheri came up and we went out there to be by the pool. J was on step playing and us talking didn't see and Bob's dad saw him and ran out stepped down on the steps and grabbed him by the arm pulling him up. So Bob's dad actually saved the childs life to me. Interesting thing about it, is that child never choked or coughed or anything like gills??.

Well came time then for me to have Josh, by the way Bob named them both, called what they would be before ever arriving. Chose names too. Well for J, he wanted either Jeremiah because of the song, or Zachariah...so I said there will be no araiah's, and went with Jeremy. Josh we stayed same on.

Well Christmas time and have a child at home, was dialated for weeks and he didn't come. Dr..oh you will love this name for Gyncologist... Seaman don't know spelling. Anyway he said he was going out of town for the holidays so someone else would be delivering him...or as I was dia-lated so long and big..he could induce labor and he would do that. So my choice...well not all together... as J was so fast delivery, they call that a history...Bob had fear of me not making it to hospital before born. So he wanted induced to know I would be there...fit me fine as I would be home for Christmas with J. I want to say they started the PIT want to say they call it letters..iv to induce about 8 as prep had to be done before. Can't remember time born..might have it...but football was going to be on at 11 and Bob wanted it over by then lol Well it was fast...Dr would sit beside me with hand on tummy and tell me when I had a good pain lol I would say was it?? Dr also asked Bob if he wanted to come in and watch..but they weren't suppose to allow that without lamaz or whatever called. He said NO

Josh they said, as he has one eye a little smaller than other...said reaction in that eye to sulfur they put in? He was also jaundices so yellow had to be under lights. He also don't know still maybe don't pay attention to it any longer...but he had one eye that turned more green like his dads and one eye blue like mine. Now J was blue eyed till oh about 9 maybe his eyes turned more toward a green cast but depends what he wears. Bob's mom said he was blue eyed till change also.

Josh was a colicky baby...I was up night after night trying to keep him quiet so Bob could sleep with going to work. So would go as far away in house I could with him.

Bob did say he was glad I did choose to have another child then.

Wednesday, March 24, 2021

AZ Horses

1974 -1976

I seem to be talking a lot about horses on the family things today haha. Well Bob knew my heart for horses too for goodness sakes, even always watching programs about them. He told me they were not a good thing to much maintenance and I needed to get a motor cycle lol

Well before we married I was staying with him and his room mate Skip Metcalf I believe, anyway Skip I called him Skipper haha he liked horse back riding so we would sometimes go together. So Bob knew my love for them.

Well on Sesame St...lots of us were young mothers with children and we all got to know each other. Even have the home parties like tupperware things like that so even gathered for those type things. Susie Morris was one of my friends too, her sons close in age. She and her husband it was interesting to me, each were only children. Anyway they had land out in Chandler Heights area I believe it was, where they had horses, both used to have them I think. The land eventually they wanted to build a house on. Susie knew my heart for horses too, she used to ask me to go riding with her, so would get to go that way, she taught me a lot. I always rode Dot, who was an appaloosa that never spotted out. So red with black mane and tail. Her horse was white can't think of the breed. We would have adventures...she would even take me to a barrel racing area and we messed with that. Taught me how to clean hoofs just everything she knew.

Well she offered me that horse for use at any time I wanted on my own even if all I would do is pay the feed.. 15.00 a month. Bob refused me to do even this. She wasn't asking me to pay anything else, no medical, shoeing, whatever just the feed. So I was not able to do that.

So I thought good thing the Lord has horses lol cause I will have one there lol and be young enough to ride.

J Lit Bed On Fire

1975 about

Well Jeremy was little, so this was before his brother was born. His dad smoked and used a Zippo type lighter, that you fill with fuel. I never liked those, I was a bic person...plus they had child protective things on them so children couldn't light them.

A neighbor was over visiting we were in the living room talking. Jeremy had gotten a hold of one of his dad's lighters and I didn't know it. His dad had several. Well he had gone back in his bedroom between the bed and the wall as he knew he was not to touch these things. He lit that thing under the bed as to no one would see him...and lit the bed on fire. Thank the Lord, that child had sense enough, and yelled for me and the neighbor and I got pitchers of water to put it out. Well the under side of that box spring had a nylon dust cover on it so it actually didn't cause the bed to be on fire. It melted all this nylon burning..dripping on the carpet burning the carpet, so several areas of black melted carpet even.

I was so upset about it, as to me this was his dad's fault for leaving his things out. I called him at work and told him he would be the one to have to deal with it. Well just doing that made Jeremy worry all day haha like what was going to happen. I did make him stay in his room then...till he saw his dad.

I don't even remember what his dad did...what I do remember is the impact it had on that child. That house became a rental for about 2 years..or so we lived in 2 different other new homes moving from one end of town to the other. Went to Glendale, then sold and went to Mesa then back to Sesame St. our first home. Well we never did replace that carpet for it being a rental as a bed would cover the spot and we were not about to put new carpet into a house that could get torn up.

When we went to move back to that place is when we heard about it from Jeremy. He did not want to be in that bedroom with melted carpet. So you just know it made an impact on him. We did put all new carpet in that house and I personally refused to move back to it unless a dishwasher was put in it as it had none. So those were my requirements. I did get a dishwasher then. After being spoiled with 2 other houses, I did not feel that was asking much to downsize.

Monday, March 22, 2021

Learning To Stand and Heart

1978 about

On the Jacobs house side of the family, there was no order whatsoever compared to how I was raised, so this site will reflect that as it will be memories as they pop into my head and as far as any order I had thought well I would try to put the year closest to memory these things were even done, should my sons ever want to see more an order of things. You know a way to sort should they want date order of things haha.

I couldn't stand cry babies and tattle tail children...I wasn't raised that way. If you wanted something to cry about in our house as a child my Daddy would for sure give you something haha that of course meant a spanking with the belt as Daddy said never hit a child with your hands, the hands were for Love. I chose to try a different way first. I remember Jeremy, of course being an only child then, trying to make that child stand up for himself rather than come crying whining to me about things. So he was 2 ½ maybe, only child he could play outside with was a next door neighbor where I could keep eye on him, would make them stay on sidewalk between the houses. This child older and a Morman never forget that....you know ones that are supposed to be so great at raising families.

Their child would take J's toys away from him and take them back over to where J's was not permitted to go...so he would come to me. Well pushed him to stand up for himself, to fight back, or not play with the child were his options. He wanted to play with someone of course, so stood up for himself and went after that boy, hitting and getting his stuff back taken from him. That child went home crying about it and boy I was ready if she the mother even came to me about it. How did I know? I watched!! That child never took another toy from my son again, he was afraid of him. That was how I pushed J.

Once we had Josh, of course 3 ½ years almost 4 between them, but Josh was tall, a battle in itself playing with other children as their parents expected more out of that child than age really...so I would have to stand against that with neighbors. Now to get Josh to stand for himself not be crying to me all the time about his brother, I purchased those blow up punching gloves...got a red set and blue set. Let the boys punch each other haha Of course I kept an eye on it...but it taught 2 things really, not only for Josh to stand, but J to have a heart for his little brother...not really wanting to hurt him as he was so much younger. Well it worked haha thank the Lord for that.

I would take the children over to my friends house Becky and her children before this of course, and her and I both used to tell those children when they complained...first question we would ask “is there blood?” Then we don't want to hear about it we would tell them. So she was same as I in these things too. Those children would go right back and get along haha

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