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Showing posts with label Jeremy Lee (J). Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jeremy Lee (J). Show all posts

Saturday, June 4, 2022

Vacation Slain In Spirit J

1980 I do believe it was, J 8 yrs old, we took a family vacation to visit my family. I think we flew, lots of plain crashes back then and rates high for all of us think we did fly that time, I think the time Daddy and mom drove to Chicago to pick us up as the expense to fly. Dad and mom I think at the church where Daddy did get his lisc at where Dwight and Marlene was love them they did. I don't even remember being introduced to them.. nor meet them, we just as usually when visit them go to church. I can't remember if it was a Wednesday night service maybe it was. Well there was an alter call after anyone want to come forward and give their heart to the Lord. Josh and J sitting by each other...Josh jabbing and J jabbing back at each other with elbows like egging on. Jeremy did go forward got out of our pew and started walking daddy on the end might have just told him just walk down front. J got out in the isle took not to many steps and knocked over on the floor on the runway. The whole congregation wanting to help the child went to get up to go to him Dwight yelled at them stay in your seats and leave that boy alone.. said and went to J didn't touch him made sure no person did. J was out quite a while but all waited quiet after Dwight said don't anyone touch that boy. When he was ?? awake seemed to be a long time to me? the service over we went home. I don't remember comments made.

Well we got home to the lake mom the hall monitor...the boys sleeping in the living room on a hide-a-bed at opposite end from mom and dad and us that same end across from them. All the sudden hear J yellin for me and mom and I get up, said he saw someone standing foot of bed it scared him. I don't remember the time that happened. They did go back to sleep after who knows what said to them. I don't remember just don't.

Saturday, January 1, 2022

J and the Rubix Cube

 1983 to 1985  not sure just know before driving or old enough too.

Well I can not remember when I got it for him...could have been a Christmas... now for Christmas, every year Dinedine would send home with me have to put them boys stockings I just had to...walnuts in shell.. and Christmas orange had to have them bottom stocking... ok as she one made them stockings.

Well I often put smaller toys in.. sometimes a game.. as would wake up before we want to.  So say ok you can if wake up but ...only thing u can get into is your stocking OK?  Fine with that them boys were.  Them even permitted play new game TV...just no wake mom and dad ok... ok...so I put weird stuff plus set stuff each year them.. so could have been put stocking don't know.

J went nuts with that rubix cube and in no time flat was spinnin it getting it right all the time.  Used to have his friends Jim and John Reynolds even make them mess up so he can fix..how fast do.. well them were not good enough for him so gave mom...want her mess up for him...well did and he was like NO mom really mess it up...so no can fix.  It was like to him...as how played with them even... if anyone can mess this up that I can not fix it would be mom.

Over and over we go with it and that child would in no time flat have it perfect again... I was blown away as I tried to mess with it I did... thought no way I am doing this thing...and am sure Josh maybe felt the same as he probably had one too is my guess...so he was like mom about it.

Well I never did video the child wish had of but never did.. and I don't remember if he ever gave to his dad to mess up my guess is maybe did tried everyone to make mess him no could solve.  didn't happen.. so got board with it and quit doing it.

Sunday, July 11, 2021

Jeremy's Baptism and godparents

1972-2-26 Jeremy Lee Jacobs birth - 1972-4-23 Baptism Godparents Carey Ehrman and Cheryl Ehrman Well was going through looking for paper for the divorce and still have some of J's things so took pics again of them. Found very interesting the numbers tied to the child, on his birth certificate he is Registered No. 917 on 2-29-1972

On his baptism a scripture from Matthew... 28:19 Very fitting of Father, and give the child a heart for a server for the Lord that he was given. 

Matthew 28:19 (KJV) Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: 

And fitting the name Matthew actually being Yeshua-Matthew in the flesh. I had one child saved from death (Joshua) as a child, and it was the reading of that book Matthew God did a miracle.. I just find all things very interesting. Now my little brother Chris would call them cowinky dinks just a phrase he used saying God involved. Baptism.  The other tie, was to my sister's husband Larry his birthday is same day and he is about the only one that speaks normal with me and answers my questions, but I have known Larry since high school, my sister and I double dated a lot together then.


 Other dates tied to J is his second time marrying Natalie...I think that was Sept 29th Aunt Sis birthday.

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Wednesday, June 2, 2021

Santa Clause At The Jacobs

Santa Clause At The Jacobs

Well it was with the internet I was actually able to research this, and the concept and what had really happened a good story.  Like everything else just got perverted by man.  In a way, the truth of it reminds me of the movie "Pay It Forward"  I think is the name.  Another great concept.

Oh wow stopped video to insert link and here at .41 and the look pic of that dude weird...


 

Anyway upon moving to AZ, of course talked to Bob's mom a lot.  I would ask questions wanting to know how her children were raised.  When I heard how she did Christmas regarding Santa Clause, I thought it was a great concept, especially for us just starting out.  She would only permit the children to ask for one toy from Santa, no list just one toy.  Well they always got that toy...now for her that toy was the only one under the tree from Santa and never ever gift wrapped.  It was out front for all to see.  They knew that all other packages were from people a spirit of giving day...or just extra things from parents.

So we started doing this.  Now Josh, he hated Santa, would cry being put on that dudes lap.  Took a few years to get over that one.  I think what I might have done the next year to help him was ask if both boys could go at the same time...so Josh wasn't alone he had his big brother.

Anyway it was a way to find out what they really wanted and forced them to think about it.  Cause they just might get only 1 thing....so make it your most important thing.

Well of course memory of J first, as I think this was what he wanted the year Josh was born, so 1975.  J wanted an Evil Knievel? have to look that up... anyway a motorcycle launch...crank it up let it take off.  It was red the crank part.  So what did the child do?  Ran straight for that toy and never wanted to open anything else...  all those gifts wrapped just sat and sat and sat.  Well I let it go, to see what would happen.  After a couple hours that child needed to get dressed and take it out front to show it off to the neighborhood and launch that cycle down the sidewalk.


 

Well I finally made him come in and open the gifts.  Anyway with this concept, my children knew there was no Santa at a very young age.  So mom changed it up some sometimes.  Would have scavenger hunts...and sometimes include scriptures in them.  So it then became a different game.  I used to make them stand and read their clue out loud before proceeding.

Well then Bob's sister wanted Ian to be part of that, so there was times he was included...meaning it came later.

Always allowed them to get their stockings, them boys would wake up early...and of course at that time they have tv games and usually put a new one in stocking to busy themselves and not wake us up.

So we did different things as ages progressed.

Holiday's were a hard time for me, most people take turns seeing different sides of the family, I always wanted to go home at least once...never happened.  So my children never saw how my family gathered.

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Sunday, May 2, 2021

Jacobs Baptism and Blessing

 August 15, 1988


My Dad and Mom came out to Arizona to see us but ultimately to baptize well he knew for sure I would, so I think his main concern was me.  Dad and Mom were not around our children enough to know what they would do.  He knew I didn't go to church, nor take my family to church.  He did however know I would allow him to baptize me just because I was a Daddy's girl, and did follow directions within our chats and what he sent me.  So for sure Daddy was after me...see how the rest went.  Why?  Because Daddy knew that his other children had been baptized...only ones not were to him Cheri and I.  Well he knew how Cheri felt about that, so only way it would happen with her, is if mom somehow talked her into it.  Now me Daddy knew me...so he wanted to make sure I was baptized.

Well I received as well as the family also a video, so yes Daddy was concerned about the Lord coming and me not being baptized.  Then got to his mission, he wanted to baptize me.  Well explaining to us that the baptism we had as babies is not baptism, it is dedication to the Lord and providing people of same beliefs willing to see that if anything happened to them, they would make sure the children would have knowledge of the Lord..(godparents) .  Then he explained about real baptism, John the Baptist never baptized children that I see or babies and about repentance..does God know the heart? true repentance?  for all to hear wanted to make sure we repented and wanted to baptize me.  Well anyone can be baptized but what the heck good does it if not from the heart repentance?  Only God sees the heart.  Well I agreed for Dad and Mom to baptize me.  The boys of course decided right away they wanted to be baptized also.  Bob waited a bit was last..he did decide to be baptized what condition heart?  What age still considered child?  Can God honor some baptism? not others?  We really are not told all the answers to these questions..what is answered is this..when the Spirit of the Lord is put on you.  Well to me I had gone forward as a child with a child's heart. Did I repent, you betcha, from the heart..Father opened my ears.  Opened J the same way older he was yet also when young.  some say double anointing tern?  Well He certainly gave them gifts for sure.   All were baptized outside, in the Jacobs pool.

After we were baptized then given direction as to a walk with the Lord I was.  Daddy gave me as I asked for it the little bible he had...a Jimmy Swaggert Counselors addition of the New Testament.   So Daddy said he would and wanted to write in it for me.  I wrote about that at this link and have a picture of the bible and words written.  He also gave me a scripture for baptism in that link talk about that.

I also remember Daddy saying something about Blessing my sons.  Inside the house of Jacobs he did this.  I was not there heard from other room as he had given me my Bible...so was reading what he wrote and stuff.  Now that is my memory.  The boys would be the ones to know if this actually happened.  I did ask Matthew to pray with me the other day and ask Father with me that He open their memory to remember this.  So this has been done.

I do know Daddy baptized my sister Cheri's children without her knowing, he did that at one of her visits with the children when just Daddy and the children were in Cline Lake where they lived.

I also know from my sister Connie, that Daddy did baptize Mitchel, I don't know however if he did any other grandchildren.

I hope to find out this information with my trip to Florida.

What I find interesting about the boys baptism, is the age of my son Joshua, as he was 13 yrs going by Jewish counting of age I believe, which was the age of Ishmael when he was circumcised.

I was instructed by Daddy to "read the Gospels and start with the book of John"  So that is what I have basically done.  Daddy never told me to go read any other book in the bible never mentioned another one.  So that is where I pretty much stayed...doing as instructed.  Of course only bible he gave me then was New Testament, so even the Bible given me was New Testament.

Was Daddy led of the Lord to do this with me?  Well I believe so, but then Daddy didn't know I had given my son's to the Lord as I didn't know how to raise them.  I never mentioned that to Daddy.  So Daddy never knew I had done that, neither my mom.  I guess maybe because my mom felt I was so bad, maybe, asked the Lord to help me as she basically put a curse? on me, heard them talk that before, by saying "I hope you have to raised a child just like yourself"  like wow she thought I was horrible, she used to try to get me in trouble with Daddy.

So this is how our family did get baptized.  Does baptism save anyone?  Not water baptism to me, are you forgiven if repent when baptized yes I believe you are, but then what the heck do people go do, sin some more..  haha  Yeshua never said baptism saved them that I found, but hey raise your hand if you think different.  He did request all be baptized in the name of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit though.  But who is the father of jesus (zeus?)  you think he have a son?  and spirit? 

Plus I have learned a lot since then as to when you actually receive and who's house you are in when you receive.  Daddy was going more by what taught by man...but knew Yeshua's words.

My prayer to Father is that he have the boys remember...because I have no clue what that one prophet said over me!  haha  just ask if good to Daddy he said yes so forgot it.

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Saturday, May 1, 2021

Jeremy and Joshua a year old +

 At this age they are starting some already walking.  Well we could not afford hardly anything starting out...yet parents purchase toys for grandchildren we did at special occasions.  I couldn't even afford to buy a toy box for them.  So what I do well toys are usually out in the living room when tiny.  I got a cardboard box, for a few cents purchased sticky back drawer and shelf paper, and covered the box with it so it looked nicer in the living room.

Toys out during the day, well always comes time to pick them up.  So I would stand behind them take a hand in each one my hands walk them over to a toy and walk them to toy box to drop it in.  Over and over I did this.  Yes took some time it is slow with them little ones...but didn't take them long when I said pick up your toys and put them in the box...they walked and did it themselves.  It was quicker then  lol  Then I was just the monitor...point out if they missed one...make them go get it.  Not done till you are done.

So I was hard on my children...today might get reported.  Child abuse you know.  Forcing a 1 year old to pick up their toys...how dare you.  Why she is making that child clean house at a year old.

And even where my husband was concerned and his mowing the yard as they were older 2 push type mowers...lower bar they can reach..hold on and walk with child..slow slow mowing but what does it teach?  They say the first 5 years are some of the most important years of learning.  Just what do you teach yours?

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Jeremy & Joshua as 3-6 month olds

 Because I did this with both my sons, I just am not putting a year.  All mothers, of course start with the milk first, then move to rice cereal, then add apple sauce usually how the pattern goes.  Most mom's will follow that and do the right thing making their child eat this.. baby spits out, wipe face with spoon catching it and shoveling it again.  Where mom's fail, are in the next phases, when we have to deal with veggies, and meats, oh yes and them cobbler desert type things, good sweets they seem to do well on.  Start mixing the fruit even some mom's give in and don't buy a fruit any longer as they spit out.  So let me ask you...just who is it that creates a picky eater??  Shall I hand you a mirror to look into??  

Now there are some mom's well I did this, who will taste that stuff they put out for babies.  Some of it tastes like crap, wouldn't want to eat it myself.  So what do?  Handy dandy grinder for baby, I would make myself.  I ate peas, babies don't seem to like them...well I prefer frozen, not that mushie canned stuff. Hey it is cheaper than baby food and buy and cook...and grind in this:


So I used to make my children as tiny eat all different kinds of things.  Now my husband to this day over 70 and will not eat a pear.  Well who's fault was that?  For this day and age...unfortunately we have people living on junk food.  I think everyone should be poor to be forced to cook make lots of meals with just one chicken...no not the boneless, skinless..buying them whole low cost ones cutting them up yourself.  For you one meal at McDonalds for dinner well heck I could make many meals...feed lots of children many meals.  So you can blame it on parenting and woman who won't cook. Monkey see monkey do.   What Gov do, feed the habit even with food stamp program...assign food, whole chicken, hamberger, how many different things make with them?  Noodles rice, frozen veggies, fruit what ever is lowest cost to feed family.  Basics of life there is a song about it.

Well everyone has things they don't prefer, and that is fine too, but refusing to even taste new things it creates too.  One movie thought so funny of course this was a child turned big, but tasted everything, now some didn't like  hahaha  but tasted it all for goodness sakes...obviously a child raised to eat.  I just laugh at this movie clip start at marker :20 to :54  then move to 1:36 to 2:10  hahaha  but he tasted it.  Now that is not a normal diet...but fact is he tried it...picky eaters don't like the look and turn away.


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Saturday, April 24, 2021

JJ and the Jack In A Box

 late 1972 - 1973

Now don't ask me why I did this, probably cause it was a toy he liked and I didn't want to get up early with the child, hoped he would sleep in.  So put in back corner of his crib the jack in a box.

Well every morning that child would be sitting up cranking that thing center bed so every morning I woke to this sound.

 


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Friday, April 16, 2021

Jeremy and Mormon boy

 1974-1975

Well our first home, was actually provided for us for $1.00 by Bob's Dad.  With his Dad being divorced, he didn't feel he would use his government benefit from military service to purchase a home no down payment.  So in investigating things done by gov...he found it could be sold.  So his Dad offered to do this for us when we moved to AZ.  I chose the house, trying to fit our income to support house payment, as our rent was only 150.00 a month.  We chose, a house for cost I believe as I wanted one thing changed and that was color of stove, got rust.  Paid total, 26,250.00 to my memory, model #1305 which was total sq ft of place.  We chose house already built...black trim, silver gray bottom colors stucco and block. so all needed was interior done.  It didn't take long and we were in.  As I recall payment was $250.00 a month could have been cents on that don't remember.  I remember our loan being sold, don't know how long that was either.  Chose darker green carpet, just standard come with house.

Well found out Mormon's next door west of us, never heard of them or religion before, so only way to even find out then is asking questions on belief's which I am good at...hahaha  That family had an older son than Jeremy, and she would not speak to me, however she did allow her child to play out front as I did Jeremy to stay well at home, but they played together at boarder between houses on sidewalk.

Jeremy would take out his tonka trucks and just different things to play with and that child would take them from him and go over under his carport where Jeremy was not permitted to go.  So he would come crying to me about it.  Well pissed me off she wasn't watching her child.

So had to teach Jeremy to stand up to even bigger guys that rob from him.  Well I did walk over and said something to the little boy about that being Jeremy's truck he took and did get it back.  I refused to do that for the child each time, so he was either going to stand up to this kid fight told him, or not play with him.  Well it was only child he could play with.  So how bad you want to play with someone else?

Well Jeremy was one smart child, and did stand up to him and fought that child hitting him which I did encourage.  Only way to stop if beat the child up.  Well that child ran home crying, as I watched the whole thing, when you are teaching something you best watch.  I was just waiting for that woman to even show her face...would have been out in a flash to defend my son.

I talked to the dad next door, and told him that his wife wouldn't talk to me, had heard they were Mormon and curious about the religion never had heard of it before.  So of course he gave me lots of information, explained his wife was a convert and they are the worst kind.  She wanted married temple, so went through all their ceremonies wore strange underwear being married.  He however raise many generations I guess, said they are not like that.  So my first exposure to Morman's. I was just shocked at what these consisted of which he did tell me...am sure from wife telling him.  Well they run most of Mesa, AZ.  Janet on our softball team also mormon many generations...what was she?  A Lesbian.  Well of course you can't find anything about the "man" mormon ceremonies for that church online.  Evil they are, lure you with KJV, once hooked totally different.

Well that child of theirs never robbed from my son again after he beat the crap out of him even being littler I think it shocked the child...and they did play together at boarder of properties.  So Jeremy, an only child at that time had to learn to stand at very young age.

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Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Son's Desire To Support Family Before Marriage

2007

The desire of J's heart and reason even waited so long to marry, was because he wanted to make enough money to have a wife stay home to raise children...look what he got? She couldn't stay put...had to have part time jobs baby sitters to even do that... now you would think a woman coming from what she came from...woman having to support men...that would be a real blessing to her. 

Remember Jeremy telling me she was just like me.  haha  kinda like Bob telling my mom I was just like her...it floored her.  Well don't know what part Jeremy felt was just like me, except for her qualities of being a help to all and friendly to all.  You try to figure these things out you know it was not spiritual qualities at all.  She didn't even get baptized till moving to KY.

Well it was to her grandmother that is for sure that made it a point to talk to me at the wedding about Jeremy and Natalie, so worried Nat would make same mistake they all made having to support the men.   She didn't think Natalie knew what she had in Jeremy.  Told me at their wedding.  The family thought a lot of him.

Did I do some work...yes, took in baby sitting of neighbors, and stayed home. When had to work I worked 2nd shift..very very limited day care...Bob was then there. When Bob lost job...I worked 2 jobs...took in sewing at home extra work... making baby forget what called but put them up over cribs for baby's to look at watch turning..Bob used to help me, as he would apply for things... oh called baby mobile I did sewing, he did stuffing... but our children were raised by us not day care...and those starting years too.

J had to go to a lady for babysitting for short period once when needed to work.. and wow this lady she was great, J loved it there, a Catholic I think but had 17 children as i recall ridiculous amount never heard of such a number.  Just until Bob got there to pick him up lived I think 8 of them at that time maybe more but in a 3 bedroom 2 story.. well lots were already grown in service etc but out of the house.

Most the time when J and Nat came to farm before marriage of course Tom would come too..but those spent most their time together, even flying kites  haha shooting always and they would have full basement to themselves only needed to come upstairs to be boys and raid the frig  hahaha.



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Thursday, March 25, 2021

Saving J - Birth Josh

1975

I had wanted another child and J was getting older, well don't know their dad was to keen on the idea but that man had drive if you know what I mean..  Well I could feel myself ovulate..so knew as he was leaving for work  lol  Well he was late that day.  Told him to leave early to make up for it.

Anyway my sister then moved to Tucson, because of her husband change in service promotion I think.  She was PG too...Trent they call T is about 3 months older than Josh.  Well they had a dog they needed to get rid of...so comes to me of course.  That was a whymer riner...yellow eyes...docked tail.  So anyway found a home for him, think him not sure.

Reason I am bringing this up is because Bob's dad actually saved Jeremy's life.  Bobs dad and Bob under him of course sold real estate way out it was a drive back then but not much traffic at all and of course 70 mpr speed limit.  Well there was a built in pool at their office which was a home so Cheri came up and we went out there to be by the pool.  J was on step playing and us talking didn't see and Bob's dad saw him and ran out stepped down on the steps and grabbed him by the arm pulling him up.  So Bob's dad actually saved the childs life to me.  Interesting thing about it, is that child never choked or coughed or anything like gills??.

Well came time then for me to have Josh, by the way Bob named them both, called what they would be before ever arriving.  Chose names too.  Well for J, he wanted either Jeremiah because of the song, or Zachariah...so I said  there will be no araiah's, and went with Jeremy.  Josh we stayed same on.

Well Christmas time and have a child at home, was dialated for weeks and he didn't come.  Dr..oh you will love this name for Gyncologist...  Seaman don't know spelling.  Anyway he said he was going out of town for the holidays so someone else would be delivering him...or as I was dia-lated so long and big..he could induce labor and he would do that.  So my choice...well not all together... as J was so fast delivery, they call that a history...Bob had fear of me not making it to hospital before born.  So he wanted induced to know I would be there...fit me fine as I would be home for Christmas with J.  I want to say they started the PIT want to say they call it letters..iv to induce about 8 as prep had to be done before.  Can't remember time born..might have it...but football was going to be on at 11 and Bob wanted it over by then  lol  Well it was fast...Dr would sit beside me with hand on tummy and tell me when I had a good pain  lol   I would say  was it??  Dr also asked Bob if he wanted to come in and watch..but they weren't suppose to allow that without lamaz or whatever called.  He said NO

Josh they said, as he has one eye a little smaller than other...said reaction in that eye to sulfur they put in?  He was also jaundices so yellow had to be under lights.  He also don't know still maybe don't pay attention to it any longer...but he had one eye that turned more green like his dads and one eye blue like mine.  Now J was blue eyed till oh about 9 maybe his eyes turned more toward a green cast but depends what he wears.  Bob's mom said he was blue eyed till change also.

Josh was a colicky baby...I was up night after night trying to keep him quiet so Bob could sleep with going to work.  So would go as far away in house I could with him.

Bob did say he was glad I did choose to have another child then.

 

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Wednesday, March 24, 2021

J Lit Bed On Fire

1975 about

 

 Well Jeremy was little, so this was before his brother was born.  His dad smoked and used a Zippo type lighter, that you fill with fuel.  I never liked those, I was a bic person...plus they had child protective things on them so children couldn't light them.

A neighbor was over visiting we were in the living room talking.  Jeremy had gotten a hold of one of his dad's lighters and I didn't know it.  His dad had several.  Well he had gone back in his bedroom between the bed and the wall as he knew he was not to touch these things.  He lit that thing under the bed as to no one would see him...and lit the bed on fire.  Thank the Lord, that child had sense enough, and yelled for me and the neighbor and I got pitchers of water to put it out.  Well the under side of that box spring had a nylon dust cover on it so it actually didn't cause the bed to be on fire.  It melted all this nylon burning..dripping on the carpet burning the carpet, so several areas of black melted carpet even.

I was so upset about it, as to me this was his dad's fault for leaving his things out.  I called him at work and told him he would be the one to have to deal with it.  Well just doing that made Jeremy worry all day  haha like what was going to happen.  I did make him stay in his room then...till he saw his dad.

I don't even remember what his dad did...what I do remember is the impact it had on that child.  That house became a rental for about 2 years..or so we lived in 2 different other new homes moving from one end of town to the other.  Went to Glendale, then sold and went to Mesa then back to Sesame St. our first home.  Well we never did replace that carpet for it being a rental as a bed would cover the spot and we were not about to put new carpet into a house that could get torn up.

When we went to move back to that place is when we heard about it from Jeremy.  He did not want to be in that bedroom with melted carpet.  So you just know it made an impact on him.  We did put all new carpet in that house and I personally refused to move back to it unless a dishwasher was put in it as it had none.  So those were my requirements.  I did get a dishwasher then.  After being spoiled with 2 other houses, I did not feel that was asking much to downsize.

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Monday, March 22, 2021

Learning To Stand and Heart

 1978 about

On the Jacobs house side of the family, there was no order whatsoever compared to how I was raised, so this site will reflect that as it will be memories as they pop into my head and as far as any order I had thought well I would try to put the year closest to memory these things were even done, should my sons ever want to see more an order of things. You know a way to sort should they want date order of things haha.

I couldn't stand cry babies and tattle tail children...I wasn't raised that way. If you wanted something to cry about in our house as a child my Daddy would for sure give you something haha that of course meant a spanking with the belt as Daddy said never hit a child with your hands, the hands were for Love. I chose to try a different way first. I remember Jeremy, of course being an only child then, trying to make that child stand up for himself rather than come crying whining to me about things. So he was 2 ½ maybe, only child he could play outside with was a next door neighbor where I could keep eye on him, would make them stay on sidewalk between the houses. This child older and a Morman never forget that....you know ones that are supposed to be so great at raising families.

Their child would take J's toys away from him and take them back over to where J's was not permitted to go...so he would come to me. Well pushed him to stand up for himself, to fight back, or not play with the child were his options. He wanted to play with someone of course, so stood up for himself and went after that boy, hitting and getting his stuff back taken from him. That child went home crying about it and boy I was ready if she the mother even came to me about it. How did I know? I watched!! That child never took another toy from my son again, he was afraid of him. That was how I pushed J.

Once we had Josh, of course 3 ½ years almost 4 between them, but Josh was tall, a battle in itself playing with other children as their parents expected more out of that child than age really...so I would have to stand against that with neighbors. Now to get Josh to stand for himself not be crying to me all the time about his brother, I purchased those blow up punching gloves...got a red set and blue set. Let the boys punch each other haha Of course I kept an eye on it...but it taught 2 things really, not only for Josh to stand, but J to have a heart for his little brother...not really wanting to hurt him as he was so much younger. Well it worked haha thank the Lord for that.

I would take the children over to my friends house Becky and her children before this of course, and her and I both used to tell those children when they complained...first question we would ask “is there blood?” Then we don't want to hear about it we would tell them. So she was same as I in these things too. Those children would go right back and get along haha

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